gtk-widget-path-iter-state (path pos)

path -- a gtk-widget-path instance
pos -- an integer with the position , -1 for the path head
state -- a gtk-state-flags value to set or unset

Accessor of the state flags.

The gtk-widget-path-iter-state function returns the state flags corresponding to the widget found at the position pos in the widget hierarchy defined by path. The (setf gtk-widget-path-iter-state) function sets the state flags.

If you want to update just a single state flag, you need to do this manually, as this function updates all state flags. Setting more flags

(let ((flags (gtk-widget-path-iter-state path pos)))
  (setf (gtk-widget-path-iter-state path pos)
        (union flags '(:dir-ltr :selected))))    

Unsetting a flag

(let ((flags (gtk-widget-path-iter-state path pos)))
  (setf (gtk-widget-path-iter-state path pos)
        (set-difference flags '(:active))))